WHAT'S YOUR AGE ???
CAREERDo you want to leave your job and start something on your own?Are you fed up with your boss or colleagues, but have to still put up with them?Are you into a financial mess or financial debt?Then you are at the right place at the right time. A coach’s job is to allow you to feel the pain, pick yourself up and rise above. Generally, people in this age group, suffer from lack of confidence and lower risk taking capabilities. A coach, who listens intently, will be able to instil confidence and prepare you for the upcoming lifeMid Life Coaching is to help people in mid-life, overcome their challenges of Relationship, Career and Health through focused coaching program.
RELATIONSHIPSAre you into relationship challenge?Are you always stressed about what’s happening between you, mom and wife?Are you searching for that one relationship which will change your life?A recent study suggests, people aged between 35 and 45, suffer from relationship issues, especially in the areas of:1. Relationships (or lack thereof)2. Maturity in children (or lack thereof)3. Aging or death of parentsA coach can help you restore relationships, find new ones and dump the old ones. The coach listens, understands and finds solutions.Mid Life Coaching is to help people in mid-life, overcome their challenges of Relationship, Career and Health through focused coaching program.
HEALTHWhat’s worse than to have yourself diagnosed with health problems, when you are just about to leave your job, retire and move around the world?"Seriously, it is going to hurt us badly when we find out that we are unhealthy and cannot move so easily.What if, a coach could help you regain your health, by chalking out an action plan, helping you change your habits, being with you in difficult times? Yes, its possibleMid Life Coaching is to help people in mid-life, overcome their challenges of Relationship, Career and Health through focused coaching program.
Breaking News: Happex Hits All Time Low
If you are middle aged, then you are likely to hit an all-time low on Happiness Index (HAPPEX). At least that is what statistics from a recent study done by Office of National Statistics suggests.
Middle aged people are the least happy, have the lowest levels of life satisfaction and the highest levels of anxiety.
Hence, the happiness index (Happex) is at an all-time low in middle age. I have coached many middle-aged people to increase their Happex and I can help you too.
Coaching Extraordinary Leaders and Leading Extraordinary People
Calling all middle-aged people, either leading their own startups and business or are managing teams at organization;
I’m Vaibhav S Datar and there are some things I know for sure.
Leading your business and teams is the best way to lead your life. Hands down. No question. It’s amazing but, it’s not all just about laptops, lounges or pools. In order to be successful, there is a lot of hard work and stress; often meaning not pursuing your dreams and goals.
Too often, leaders get stuck in their job, feel financial pressure and have stressed relationships; And I am here to help. I know you are confident, successful and powerful. You are driven to make a valuable difference to people’s lives. You have a point to prove. You have targets to hit.
My clients are middle aged people, often wanting to pursue their childhood dreams. I’m the author of “Simplify Your Life” and founder of signature Mid Life Transformation Program.
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Coaching, per session, is a life changing powerful conversation between YOU and ME. Each coaching conversation is a step towards achieving your dreams and goals. It is a mechanism to look beyond the “impossibilities” of life. It is a step by step method to co-create a life, you desire.
During a coaching conversation, you get
• Access to INNER WISDOM and KNOWLEDGE, which you already have. The coach is a curious questioner, viewing the client’s situation from an altogether different perspective. The coach highlights the blind spots, uncovers the deeper issues and explore situations from a fresh perspective.
• An unimaginable LISTENER. What is missing in this world is a person who can listen and listen with non-judgment. When you dwell and verbalize your issues a little longer, you are likely to receive clarity around your plan of action.
• To dream BIG. Dream for a life, you always wanted for yourself and not what others want of you. You start living beyond fear. You feel fear of the unknown but as you start making daily progress towards our goals, you start growing beyond your daily life and nearer to your dreams.
• To experience ACHIEVEMENT. As you start implementing your action plan, you start hitting milestones. With each milestone, you start experiencing achievement. Happiness comes from knowing that you are enjoying the process of aspiring and actions.
• A ready reckoner for your LIFE. During challenging times, whenever you feel the need, you know you have a coach to rely upon. You can ask questions, clarify doubts, clear your confusion, seek advice, brainstorm and generate new ideas
• Be HAPPY. As you start achieving more and more, you get to bask in the happiness and enjoy the moments of success. You get to celebrate the wins and reflect upon your losses.
As a midlife coach, I use the following amazing tools during Conversations / Sessions
I approach questioning with curiosity. Questions are used to understand the beliefs and thought process prevalent at those challenging times. You will be surprised as to how much information you can receive just with the power of questioning
Listening and listening intently and patiently with full attention. Listening is one of the most neglected art of the century. I have seen many of my clients progress well towards their dreams, felt good only because I listened.
A great rapport is required between me and you. Why? Without rapport, you are unlikely to open up so a first couple of sessions, will be built upon establishing a rapport. Rapport will help you share things which you have never shared before. This helps in clearing out your mental and emotional blocks sooner.
4. Feedback – Coach is an uncomfortable mirror, reflecting your thoughts, beliefs and habits. As a coach, I will also feed back with what’s working and what’s not working.
5. Silence – One of the greatest tools of coaching. You need to experience this tool to appreciate the benefits you will receive.
Other than the coaching tools above, I use the following systems and processes
1. IT System – to track the progress towards our goals and dreams
2. Goal Planning – a working document to record the goals
3. Action Item Tracking – track all the action items at one place
4. Feedbacks – Give and receive feedback through the system
5. Journal Topics – thoughtful topics to consider in between two sessions
6. Key Concepts, Assessment and Forms –to go deeper in any area
7. Subliminal Messaging – for directly reaching the heart
8. Books and Periodicals – for supplementary reads
Absolutely. As a coach, I maintain highest confidentiality and secrecy. You can share your darkest secrets and your deepest fears with me. Nothing gets shared with the outside world, not even with my spouse. Guaranteed.
Just two words “Show Up”. Show up on time. Show up well prepared. Show up with enthusiasm and energy. Show up with the eagerness and the drive to achieve your dreams.
Show up with completed actions.
As a coach, I will be non-judgmental, confidential, and professional with only intention being your success and progress. I will show up on time, be there for you in times of need and support you completely.
We look at the time passed between sessions, focus on goals for the session, check and plan out actions, have open, direct communication.
All my sessions are on the phone. You can receive coaching, irrespective of where you are in the world.
Globally, coaching is paid in advance and in full. What works globally, works locally as well? An advance payment shows your commitment towards the goal. You work towards your dreams more intently and in a focused way.
I accept payments through credit and debit cards, NEFT and PayTM. I run an unconditional HAPPINESS Guarantee, an option to receive your money back in an unlikely event of you not liking the work we do.
In coaching, clients are accountable (to themselves) for the results. A coach is accountable to making the coaching process work.
I hold myself accountable to making the coaching process work for you and that is why I GUARANTEE that you will get full value from my coaching. If at the end of the first 4 weeks (of the 12 week package) you feel you are not getting enough value, I will give you a 100% refund of your full payment (even for the 4 sessions that you would have already used).
Yes. I’m available for brief calls (5 to 10 minutes).
Yes we can. But do not expect an immediate reply as I check my emails only twice a day, for limited time. However, be rest assured that it will be read before our next session.
Postponing a session is complete no-no. However, in the eventuality that it is going to be postponed, please make sure you keep me informed at least 24 hours in advance. That gives me enough time to work out my free time.
All calls are on phone and with today’s connectivity, unless you are travelling to the moon, we can still conduct session.
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